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I am a year-old married woman.

My husband of 18 years is 22 years my senior. I credit my husband for giving me a good life and helping me pursue goals. But my husband is a type-A professional, and that has played out in the bedroom. He has always been disinterested in my pleasure. I suggested that he masturbate in the shower if he wanted a morning quickie. That attitude about my wifely duties also translates into myriad other household tasks that fall into my lap. Hubby, by the way, does not fall into my lap. This makes me feel disgusting. I have tried to spice up our sex life. For years, it has been penis in the vagina, missionary position or doggy-style.

A little information can be a dangerous thing. I started visiting online domination forums. I hinted about these interests to my husband and got shot down of course. This is heady stuff. I have spoken to each of them on the phone and exchanged hundreds of s. This is the happiest I have been in my entire life, and I want to act on these desires.

My husband is my only concern. He is so rigid. I am stuck. How do I deal with this? On the other hand… you say your rapey, pussy-disparaging, sex-shaming husband is your best friend baffling! But on the other other hand… your husband sounds like the type of guy who would regard your secret online life as cheating—the hundreds of s, the phone calls, the hours lurking on domination websites—and divorce you just the same if he found out. The orgasms are great, but it limits the ways I can get off with my husband. For instance, the only way I can orgasm during sex is being on top and rocking back and forth on him in a similar manner.

All of that feels nice, but I never climax. How can I teach myself to masturbate correctly? Some say to take a month off of sex, too? Not all of these guys are clenching their dicks too hard; some are rubbing up against pillows like you, CRUD, or even—my personal favourite—sliding their dicks between mattresses and box springs. Allow the pressure and frustration to build long enough, and a dick will adapt. A new groove will be carved—but they may have to keep at it for months, plural, not a month, singular. And go ahead and have sex but, again, no death grip, no pillow, no mattress.

My advice for you, CRUD, is the same as my advice for the boys: if you want to learn how to get off in other ways, masturbate regularly—constantly—but without the pillow. Focus on the pleasure you are able to achieve, and give it at least three months. After giving your junk a chance to adapt, CRUD, you may have to accept that this is how you get off—this is how your junk works, this is how your orgasms happen—and let go of the shame.

Enjoy the fingering, enjoy the oral, and enjoy the fucking, and then, when you want to get off, manoeuvre your husband into a position that works for you and shamelessly grind away. The only true advise is to confront your husband with your sexual desires and needs letting him know that you have needs that he must fulfill. Don't forget he gave you a good life im assuming financially and helped you with your goals, so done expect payment for your choice when walking out the do. I can say definitively that enjoying performing oral sex on women is not the sole domain of submissive men.

In fact, it's an act that puts the control over the recipient's pleasure in the hands But that's neither here nor there. It's not really about domination or submission at all. Or at least that's what it is for people without the seriously fucked-up hangups that DOMME's husband obviously has. On behalf of men who like giving Oral Sex to their female partners. I definitely wouldn't view myself as submissive and I usually take control in the bed but I love going down on a woman. For me its an act of incredible intimacy and in my relatively limited experience produce some spectacular orgasms, It always shocks me to hear my fellow men say they hate doing it or will not do it.

I dont blame the wife for seeking her pleasure elsewhere - hubby's the one letting things down. Its only in recent years that I've come to realise how important sexual compatibility is in a relationship. Its not all about the sex but its a big part of it. Oh and I'm 50, middle aged, married male with marital problems not unlike the the male analogue of the problems of the wife! Stupid advice. Cheating is never the answer. If there's a problem, bring it up, discuss it, come to a livable compromise, or move on.

But don't do it behind their backs. That's just weak and cowardly. I agree with the male commenters that don't look at giving head as submissive not that there's anything wrong with that. To have a woman in the throes of orgiastic excitement for an extended time is a powerful, wonderful experience. I often ask my wife to sit on my face and let her think she is controlling the action while I tempt and tantalize her in every part of her undercarriage.

I particularly like licking and softly chewing on her inner thighs and then returning to clit-flicking and flat-tongue larruping from anus to labia and back again until she grinds on me while I grab her magnificent tits. Guess what? She comes. If that's "submissive", so be it. Men who wont go down on women are selfish idiots, and probably are the same guys that think men never have hygiene issues.

Some guys have a thin, average or even an undersized penis. They want their partner to have an exhilarating experience so giving great head during foreplay is how they get it done. It doesn't mean that they are submissive - more like tactical and good at making adjustments. Dan's first letter writer wants to know if she should talk to her boyfriend about a sexually transmitted infection with symptoms.

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